...A colleague was up for tenure ... she was disappointed in me because I "took" the first authorship and that I had misled her. Uh, your name wouldn't have been there AT ALL, and I did you a favor, remember?????? Did you really expect to be the first author when all you did was proofread?
I hope that you told her that. And then hopefully, there have been enough of these sort of tantrums that she will be denied tenure for lack of collegiality.
I did, but I think she said, "That has nothing to do with this!"
or some nonsense. I don't even know how she could possibly justify her behavior, and it is absolutely fascinating
that she is clearly under the impression that she was wronged.
I suppose she is missing a few screws...