I too, cringe when I see such articles because experience has taught me to expect an administrator to demand that we start documenting that we checked to see why each student skipped class, why each missing assignment was missed, and why each late paper was late. After that, we will be expected to file a report on each incident including what we did to help the student fix whatever problem they were having, track the success % of our solutions, and track the rate of change of the success % of our solutions.
I put these situations in my 'advisor mode', not my 'professor mode'. I try to help people with time management skills, guide them to tutoring, make them aware of scholarships, on-campus and off-campus jobs if they are having money problems, and give them any advice I can to help them succeed. However, I am not going to try to track down every student who has a late assignment. For people with serious, mitigating circumstances, I recommend incompletes. For people with so many long term problems that they can't complete their work and likely will not be able to for several semesters, I suggest they leave school. If you have three kids who are chronically ill, a husband who works and travels constantly, and relatives that you need to drop everything for and go tend to 4 or 5 times a week, you are wasting your time and money in school. Either wait until your life calms down enough for you to handle college or rearrange your priorities.
+1
And for those who don't come to class, do assignments, etc. because they just don't care, the hand holding that is being pushed will a) turn universities into elementary schools and b) convert professors into another species of helicopters.
Sh!t happens and I take that into account with my students. I'm the most liberal professor I know for taking late assignments and allowing incompletes that are caused by life circumstances. But for the most part, students just need to put on their big boy/girl britches and begin taking responsibility for themselves. That means doing work, showing up for classes
and soberly assessing whether their life circumstances make seriously pursuing postsecondary education possible. Sometimes caring for family members and other responsibilities are more important.
As it is has been put in other contexts, it does no good for us to care more about the education/life circumstances of students than they care themselves. We can provide advice, but whether they act on it is up to them. The
in loco parentis model is dead and should not be resurrected in zombified form.