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[dolljepopp]

kay, I have no personal experience with any fraternal organisations, although I have and have had friends who were active in various things -- principally the Masons and Toastmasters (not fraternal, I know).

I wonder whether some sort of volunteer work with a non-profit would suit you. Local theatre clubs would likely welcome someone who was handy with a hammer (if you are) or who could help manage ticket sales. For that matter, any arts group could probably make use of a volunteer and in my experience, those can be very sociable people. Is there a local choir or community music group of some sort that might be an option? I've no idea whether or not you sing or play an instrument, but where I live these are very popular. Is there a local charity that could use some help a couple of nights a month? A museum that uses volunteer docents/guides?

Alternatively, might there be groups that plan activities around things that interest you -- touring local sights, seeing movies, going to concerts, community gardening, model train building, hiking, kayaking, etc?

I've nothing whatsoever against fraternal organisations, but there may also be other opportunities out there.
 

[punchnpie]

Are Greek organizations fraternal organizations? I don't know about the white ones, but the black ones have very active chapters that do service as well as provide a social outlet for members. You can join as an adult; you don't have to have been a member in college. They have big meetings every year, which give you a chance to get away from home and party until you can't stand up anymore.

My mother attended her sorority's annual meeting awhile back in Chicago. At one of the sessions, the members who had been in for 50 years or whatever, were presented with a crown. Apparently there were a number of little old black ladies shopping like crazy on Michigan Avenue, wearing their crowns. It sounds nuts, but it was probably very cute.

My stepfather was active in his frat until he passed away. It was never my thing, but apparently it can provide life long friendships and opportunities for service for those who find them appealing.

And Kaysixteen - you're a guy? I had no idea.