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« Reply #18 on: February 11, 2012, 02:11:40 PM » |
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Neutralname, your points are really interesting to me--at a CC. I think that, in a way, we're expected to be role models as much as I would be at a SLAC. (Full disclosure: my undergrad is a fundy Christian LA, so of course all the profs were expected--and effectively contracted--to be shining role models for us.)
But as we're repeatedly reminded at my sub/urban CC, wer're the only "real" adults in most of these students' lives, even those who are non-trad age. Fully 1/4 of our students come from no-parent homes (raised by other relatives, or often by the state/on their own by age 15-16 or so); another 1/2 are from single parent homes, and these are overwhelmingly with Mom, who's statistically overwhelmingly 18 or fewer years older than the student. Even those who come to us as non-trads show varying degrees of social immaturity. Something like 90% of our students work 20 or more hours/week, but again, the vast majority of those are entry-level service jobs, i.e., not jobs that are taken as part of a career path for either the student or his/her supervisor, so they often don't have great examples there of maturity, responsible adult behavior, etc. (Yeah, our institutional research folks can slice the baloney pretty thin.)
Maybe it's because I've been a mom for 20+ years, but I just assume people are watching me. Whether I extrapolate that to being a role model, I don't know, but I guess at my CC we are, whether we want to be or not. Certainly not all, or even most, of our students here see us that way, which is clear from their behaviors and attitudes inside and outside of our classrooms, but for those who are truly trying to learn and grow and make something of their lives, it's clear that they're attached to various of their profs to some degree.
In reading the thread and thinking of your earlier question, I'm reminded that my own ethics developed, as I think VP suggested, more in my late 20s and 30s rather than as a young student (bombarded as I was by my profs' exhortations and examples of high moral character). I know the best thing I do every summer to reset the "ethics" button is a habit I started back in grad school: reading all of Walden. I use healthy portions of it in my Early Am lit class and my interdisciplinary studies classes (albeit for other primary purposes), and a good number of students each term tell me it has the same effect on them. FWIW.
Oh--one other thing occurs to me as I reread this before posting: I am a middle-aged white woman, and this is my take on the matter (and it's similar to what I hear from others of my general demographic--yes, we do have these discussions on a fairly regular basis, both formally and informally). But my colleagues who are members of other racial/ethnic groups are more or less explicitly told and reminded of their role model status on a regular basis; one of my dearest friends, an African American woman in her late 30s, used to sarcastically refer to this as the (figurative) "DuBois Clause" in her contract. Again, FWIW.
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