However, I know that I've often been in very bad emotional shape by trying to fit into someone else's label instead of following my heart and head while occasionally dealing with the people who shake their heads over me.
Oh, and in case you haven't experienced it, no matter what you do, someone will disapprove. Kids/no kids, career/job/homemaker, clothes, car/no car/bike. It doesn't matter.
Remember: "You can't please everyone. But if you do what you like, at least one person is happy". I've seen this attributed to Katherine Hepburn. Whether that's true or not, it's still good advice.
You are 100% right. Sometimes, though, I still need to hear it. I think I may print out that quote and stick it on my computer monitor!
niceday, I do network and work to keep my CV and resume (for non-academic jobs) current. I appreciate the reminder, though.
