Abstentions are not supposed to be counted?? We _always_ count them as nos.
What is up with our governance?
Probably your bylaws require that a vote pass by a "majority of those present"--which is pretty common, at least among the nonprofits I've worked with. See the
Robert's Rules FAQs Question #6.
And, actually, we don't know from the original description which applied to the OP's situation--if the group in question uses Robert's Rules strictly, or whether the bylaws contain additional language about what constitutes a majority.