I am finishing my first year of a TT job in the social sciences at a very good R1 (school A). My spouse has been offered a TT job at a really top R1 (school B). At the moment, top R1 is not able to do a spousal hire. My R1 is only able to offer him a non-TT job. So, spouse is inclined to take the job at School B. They are not within driving distance, so we will have to live apart, which we are reluctant to do because we're trying to conceive. But we're willing to do it for a year or two to see while we try to see if we can get jobs together. We have been told by someone in the know that the best way to get a spousal hire at school B is for spouse to negotiate for me to be a visiting prof there for a year, while taking a leave of absence from my current job, and then hope that they will be willing to turn the visiting job into a permanent one (perhaps if there is a job opening in the appropriate department). This would also perhaps make School A more willing to accommodate my spouse.
The other strategy most people mention is that we should both be on the market trying to get outside offers.
Given that it's April, it seems like it would be too late to negotiate the visiting position for next year. It would certainly not endear me to my current department. But does it make sense to wait till the 2011/2012 academic year? I am also concerned that if I wait a year and do the visiting position, and then it doesn't end up working out with school B, I'll jeopardize my 4th year leave, which I want to use to do research overseas.
Has anyone else dealt with this kind of situation?
Is your spouse already on the T-T?
You have the most leverage during the initial hiring. This place is full of stories of people who were told that the administration hoped to do a spousal hire down the line ... and never did. Once the person is stuck at their job, administration becomes less willing to part with dwindling resources to appease someone who's already there.
It will likely require being constantly on the job market for a few years to solve your problem. So, your best strategy depends on how competitive you both are, how crowded your subfields may have become as well as the biological clock.
Good luck.
Good luck.