gsmerlin
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« Reply #65 on: May 17, 2009, 11:22:47 PM » |
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I'd lurked here now and then, but this topic brought me out of the woodwork to register.
While lurking and wandering through posts earlier this week, I came across this topic. I read through the posts, thought about it, and walked away. Later in the week, I got an email from my department asking to set up an advising session. I made an appointment, then showed up not to any advisement, but instead to have just this sort of speech delivered.
First, I must admit that I was glad I'd read through this topic. Having even thought about it at least allowed me to respond coherently to what was happening. For some background, I am (or I suppose, technically, was) a graduate student in a medieval history program for which the first two years are spent earning an MA, followed by continuing into the PhD program. I scored well on my GREs and was accepted into the program with a three-year full-tuition fellowship. While I'm self-aware enough to admit I've not been a perfect student, my GPA is a 3.6 and change. Nothing below a B, and only one of those, and only one extension requested (for the paper for an independent research class).
Now that I've had this speech (presumably not from the OP), there are a few things that I think are important:
1) Honesty up front, throughout the program. My advisor and everyone else in the program always described the transition between the MA program and the PhD program as a matter of paperwork, nothing more. So long as you weren't flunking out of classes, there was nothing to be concerned about in terms of continuing into the PhD portion of the program. Receiving a three-year fellowship only reinforced this idea. Furthermore, when my advisor suggested that I apply to other programs this fall, it was in the context of "you have nothing to lose anyhow, since you have another year of funding here." Maybe I should have read between the lines there, but as I was performing well in classes, there was no reason to expect to need to.
2) Personal delivery. In my case, the news was delivered through a general program advisor whom I had never met before. Because the advisor wasn't familiar with me or with my classwork and performance in class, I wasn't really able to ask for more details when the reason given was "it's not a good fit," which has left me feeling generally uneasy about the reasoning behind the decision. Was it a matter of economics, since there was fellowship money on the line? Did I somehow get on the wrong side of a professor? Do I have weaknesses as a student that contributed to the decision? I'll be contacting my professors once I've had a chance to digest it all to ask those questions, but I feel like an announcement of that gravity should be delivered by someone the student knows, so that they have a chance to work those things out and can better decide which direction to go from there.
3) Timing. It should be as early as possible or feasible. Finding out in mid-May that I won't be continuing with classes in August has put me behind the curve in terms of applying for jobs of any sort. My resume certainly isn't up to par, and to be honest, having planned on continuing school and classes for several years to come, I hadn't even considered what I would do in this situation. Which leads to the next point...
4) Have information about alternatives available. This was mentioned earlier in the thread, and just seeing some of the suggestions helped me when the hammer dropped. But my guess is that most students in this situation, like me, haven't thought about what else they might do. Information about the school career services center, professional certifications, alternative programs in potentially more employable areas, and anything that acknowledges a need to replace purpose and goals can all make a big difference to someone who finds him- or herself unexpectedly moving on.
5) Reassure them that you and the department will still be there for them, even if they're no longer a student. Hopefully this is true in some sense. If I choose to try to apply to other programs again in the fall, I know I'll need letters of recommendation, but I was also counting on the advice of my professors in choosing programs, editing writing samples, and wording statements of purpose...Something they'd offered to help with just a few weeks before this meeting. Now I'm not entirely sure where I stand.
While finding out that your plans are going to have to change isn't the end of the world, it is life-changing. We all enter into grad school with hugely long-term goals and grandiose plans, and finding them cut short can be jarring. I'm really glad to see that there's some concern on the other side of things about the delivery of this sort of news. Once it's time to deliver it, though, I think one of the most significant things you can do, as the bearer of that news, is to offer help in making the transition. With that in hand, I think most graduate students can turn the change in plans into a positive.
(And on the utterly mercenary side, students who feel like you've guided them to a more productive path rather than dumped them on the wayside are probably going to be more likely to donate to the school and alumni funds in the future. ;))
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