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zeegirl
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« Reply #33 on: October 15, 2007, 10:29:48 PM » |
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Firefly--
"Hu" is used by many people on the fora; it is a fora-specific reference, used in an attempt to not identify the gender of the person in question. In other words, neither a "her" or a "him". Many, many, many discussions have taken place on the fora about the adequacy, usefulness, accuracy, etc., of the term.
I think the OP was attempting to disguise the person's gender in the original posting, but made a slip and eventually identified the troubled staff member as a woman. I did not read this as a last name, nor an ethnic identifier.
I'd also like to throw in my two cents worth here. I read frustration, venting, and a "throw-up-my-hands-and-give-up" quality to the OP and the subsequent posts by her/him. I didn't really see the other qualities that some people saw. But then I've had to deal with depression in my own family, and I can see where it would get a little frustrating. My SO, ZeeGuy, also suffers from depression, and he and I have had long discussions about how to help each other work through it. I'm not sure that I have any advice for the OP, other than to turn it all over to the Dean in question. The Dean really should be dealing with this, as well as HR.
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