I wish I still lived in Boston to meet :-(
Well, I see you are listed as being in the Midwest. Someone was organizing a Chicago get-together for soon. Maybe that's something you could attend.
As someone at an R1, I bet you are near enough a big city that you could organize a meet-up. Just post the city and a target date and, in my experience, people will come.
Back on topic:
I am making an executive decision.
Where: Bertucci's
When: 5:30 pm on 28 February
Who: anyone who wants to come; currently, I see me, Zharkov, Betty_P, Oldfullprof, and one anonymous person via PM. Spork and Collegekidsmom, are you in or are you just helping as knowledgeable Boston folks?