It happened again last week. It happens at least a couple times every summer. I know it’s going to happen, I’ve thought about it, and I’m still not that good at handling it.
It is a conversation that usually comes up with someone I don’t know very well: someone I’m chatting with at yoga or at the dog park, for instance. They know (or find out) that I teach at the university, and they say:
Are you enjoying your summer off?
There are, of course, lots of different inflections that such remarks can have. A sneering “it must be nice to have the summer off” is very different from the friendly curiosity or well-meaning enthusiasm that most people express — and, thankfully, much more rare. Most people are genuinely curious — and also ignorant of all the responsibilities of an academic position. Teaching is the visible part of the job, the part that everyone knows about. So if I’m not teaching, they reasonably assume I’m off.
But I’m not off. In fact, the summer allows me more time for writing and research, since my teaching and service duties are reduced. I’ve written elsewhere about thinking about this as time away from teaching, since it’s not like I just turn my brain off.
In fact, it’s probably partly due to the intensity with which I work during the summer that my response is to the question is so awkward. If I’m emerging into the world for an evening yoga class after being at my desk all day, I can’t help but say something like “No, I’m not really off, you see, I’m busy researching” or “it’s nice to have a break from teaching so I can spend more time writing.” But it still feels awkward, usually because I wind up answering more seriously and explaining more about academic life than the situation really warrants.
The most graceful response would probably be something like “Yes — I’m going out of town in a couple weeks. Are you going anywhere this summer?” thereby turning the conversation around. But that sidesteps the reality of what I’m doing this summer.
The truth is that I and many other academics work quite intensely, if invisibly, during the summer. Honoring that truth without seeming defensive is still a conversational challenge for me.
Luckily, I know I’ll undoubtedly get another chance to practice a better response.
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