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April 5, 2011, 9:30 am

Have you ever opened a personally addressed envelope to find a letter you had sent torn into tiny pieces? Perhaps you’ve had a letter you authored returned with the word “Ha!” or “You will live to regret this” scrawled in red marker through the body. Maybe you have placed a call only to have the person on the other end hang up before you had delivered your full message. Yes, the way candidates respond to messages of rejection can be quite startling.

While no one likes to be rejected for an employment opportunity, I am consistently stunned that candidates will destroy all future possibilities by acting petulant: “When I first received your letter, I was shocked, but now I am simply amused. Good luck; I’m sure you have hired what you deserve.” As startling and disconcerting as these displays of outrage can be, I actually find them quite comforting as they affirm that we made the right decision in selecting another candidate. It’s been said that one’s true character emerges during period of adversity, and I believe that.

I recall once having to choose among three very highly qualified candidates. The first person I called to deliver the bad news was somewhat snarky and unpleasant. The second was enormously gracious and said, “I have to admit that I am terribly disappointed because I was really excited about this position. If you ever have another opening, I’d really appreciate the opportunity to apply again.” And then he stayed in touch. Over the course of the next eight months, he sent two notes of congratulation and a few articles he thought I might find interesting. It was clear that he was following our organization and still interested in joining us. When candidate number one had to relocate unexpectedly for family reasons, guess who I called.

Have you ever had a candidate act out after being turned down for a position?

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  • steiny

    I wonder if this is why more and more institutions are NOT calling people anymore and just sending letters. I also notice many institutions just stopped contacting people all together they don’t hire. Our profession and society is becoming less and less personal and shameful!

  • cutright

    I was once in charge of a search process, and I asked HR if I might be permitted to contact the unsuccessful candidates myself. While they were wary, they OK’d the specific language of my letter and allowed me to send it. Now, most took it well, or at least did not evidence childish reception. But others? Wow. Threats of a suit. Demands for specifics on the qualification of the hired individual. Assertions that a congressman would be called and institutional consequences would be inflicted. Friend, does your attendant know that you’ve gotten off the grounds?

    On the other hand, in my administrative and academic pursuits and the searches those have entailed, I have gotten as far as the final, on-campus interview three or so, and then….nothing. No letter, no call, not even a return call when a month or so passed and no word was received. But that’s useful information, too, about a joint with no class.

    On balance, others’ poor behavior does not justify our own. Please send the letter, make the call, or see that it is done with appropriate courtesy. Simply treat others as you would wish to be treated. Your thoughtfulness and professionalism will be remembered by the majority of candidates–as will be the opposite.

  • vaillancourt_az

    No call or letter after an on campus interview? I am horrified.

  • http://www.latinforpayattention.tumblr.com NotaBene

    I recently received a rejection letter (the first communication from the school, in fact) thanking me for my interest in X position and for speaking with the committee. In fact, I had done neither–I had applied for another position entirely. I have a position with which I’m thrilled, but I felt like writing to the search chair to inform them of the error. Some colleagues dissuaded me, but with this type of impersonality in the process, I can see how people can get fed up and act out.

  • ynori

    In my department, we were once under enormous pressure to hire a particular candidate because hu was a spouse of a very well liked and highly respected faculty member. However, hu just was not qualified for the particular position and so was passed up. When broken the bad news, the candidate immediately responded by berating the chair and bad mouthing our campus, both embarrassing hus spouse and forever sinking hus chances for any position on our campus. There was a great deal of goodwill to find some sort of accommodation somewhere on our campus for the candidate prior to hus misbehavior, but all of it went *poof* in one stroke. This story has subsequently spread throughout hus particular field and has (from what I hear) cost the candidate a number of interviews in the area.

    I could never wrap my head around such behavior–especially in the small world of academia.

  • darccity

    The smugness or outright arrogance of this author indicates that this is the last person you’d want to work with. I’ll bet she truly believes she knows how to hire the best people and evaluate the performance of those she’s hired. Instead, all that is clear is that subservience and respect for power is her priority in employees. Did she ever wonder why she receives torn up rejection letters back? I never got dissed in the ways she cites because I always showed respect and empathy as an administrator. Perhaps those responses were triggered by their treatment in the application and interview process.

    Also, comments here are wrong that complain it wasn’t always thus (back in the good ol’ days…). The type of rejection letter I nominate for returning in torn up bits were the ones I received way back in the 70s and 80s. These always prominently included a section trumpeting how many hundreds of applications they received and how proud they were to hire greatest person in the universe — not a classy way to inform someone they’ve been rejected! Every opening gets hundreds of applications, mostly from those without green cards or lacking fields or qualifications specified in the ad. The best ones may have applied, but may very well not accept the job (at least not at the salary and perks you’re able to offer).

  • jamesm

    I think you just sent the type of email that the article discusses. I suspect you won’t get a callback later.

  • jhanks

    Sorry about the bitterness of your experience, but graciousness is not smug, arrogant, or subservient. It’s just a good way to value people as people. Rejection stings, but when the rejectee feels that he or she has to hit back, that’s a pretty good indicator that he or she will be petty and vindictive in committee assignments, collaborative courses, and the general hurly-burly of academic life. I’d rather work with gracious people.

  • inlibrarian

    I am currently waiting to be contacted after a phone interview and according to their stated timeframe, I should have heard back. I would appreciate a rejection letter since it is better than this limbo. It is especially awkward since I have a temporary part-time position in the department and I have to refrain from pumping staff members for information–”Have they scheduled anyone for on campus interviews yet, or are they just behind schedule?”

    One thing is for sure, if I do get a rejection, I will thank them for the consideration and tell them that I hope to continue working at the university in my current capacity. Never, ever, burn bridges, even if you swear you will never work for them. Another position may open up or someone involved in that search may end up at another university. You don’t need some HR assistant telling the story of how you flamed the search committee at another university. Good manners, even in the face of extreme rudeness, is always the best policy.

  • darccity

    As a long-time, off and on administrator, you both missed the point. I was arguing in favor of graciousness, civility, and empathy! All we know from the article is how someone on the hiring end is perturbed and disappointed. But academia has long been a market with surplus supply, which naturally breeds arrogance and entitlement for those on the hiring side. The implication of the article (along with some of the comments here) is that the author had a hand in blackballing those who challenged her with these self-destructive responses. I would ask if jamesm and jhanks believe in that behavior, too?

  • bpilgrim

    There are times when the search committee already has its mind made up, but they have to bring in three candidates so they will adhere (technically) to the process. I was the victim of that once. I had taken a day off and driven about an hour and half. About a half hour into the interview, I realized that the search team did not feel I was even minimally qualified. I put on a brave face and tried to keep selling myself. In hindsight, I was angry. Some of the the search team’s comments bordered on the insulting. I shared some of this with the HR person after I received the rejection email. I guess its still sour grapes.

  • wall8305

    Oh, yeah. We once were involved in a lengthy search, with administrative obstacles drawing it out, and unable to communicate these obstacles to candidates who were still in the running. One of the candidates called the president to complain about her “poor treatment” at our hands – with the result that we dropped her from our list of possibles.

  • margray

    When this has happened to us in the past, it is usually because we want to hire the candidate but there is some kind of budget problem. I agree that it would be way better to tell the candidate that there is a delay and that they are still in the running, but this is usually out of our hands.

  • ynori

    It is difficult for me to detect any smugness or arrogance (outright or otherwise) in this author’s article. On the contrary, she communicated, to me at least, a great deal of empathy and compassion for what is for anyone difficult news, that is, being rejected. I have far more empathy and compassion for her than the rejected candidates after having seen the kind behavior she describes first hand.

  • fleurdicard

    Wow. If this is how you express “graciousness, civility and empathy,” I’d really hate to see how you express bitterness, disrespect and arrogance.

  • fleurdicard

    You are so right about never burning bridges. Personnel at universities do change — and the ungracious lout who doesn’t communicate with candidates today may be on to somewhere else tomorrow. Reports of bad behavior from candidates, however, live on at institutions no matter what.

  • fleurdicard

    Been there, too. Felt frustrated, angry and hacked off, too. Once I realized what was happening, however, I used the experience as good rehearsal time for the interviews at other institutions I knew I would get. When I got the rejection call, I was as gracious as possible. NONE of us knows what the future will hold and I want to keep doors open, not closed. It is VERY frustrating, I know, but I always want to be in the position of rejecting “them” (whoever the “them” may be) rather than being rejected by “them.”

  • greeneyeshade

    Ditto. Also had this experience. One of the interviewers in particular was on the attack from the first minute we sat down to talk. I don’t know if she had been assigned to play “bad cop” or not, but it was plain from the outset that her mind was already made up.

    Graciousness is a two-way street.

  • jhanks

    It’s important to respond with maturity and grace, even if the institution behaves badly. I don’t condone dismissive and careless responses to potential faculty candidates, but the institution’s bad behavior doesn’t excuse viciousness on the part of the spurned. If we hire one person, and we had 200 applicants for the position, did we “blackball” the other 199, or did we just select the candidate whose interview wowed us and whose credentials are sterling?

  • darccity

    “While no one likes to be rejected for an employment opportunity, I am consistently stunned that candidates will destroy all future possibilities by acting petulant.”
    Sure sounds like a threat of blackballing to me. If she repeatedly receives such response, it might be time to re-examine her search procedures. Perhaps there’s a discourteous staffer in charge of communications with candidates, or their travel office may be holding up reimbursement, or any of a hundred sources that could be feeding this extreme antagonism.

  • nematoda

    “Every opening gets hundreds of applications, mostly from those without green cards or lacking fields or qualifications specified in the ad.”

    I am wondering how you know that “most” applications are from those without green cards, but I am also wondering why you think this is relevant? Are you suggesting that international applicants are, by definition, unqualified for any position–or are you implying that they should not be considered in the first place? Your message here smacks a bit of arrogance and smugness, too, I dare say.

    And, how could you possibly know that most other applicants lack the “fields or qualifications specified in the ad”? That’s the sort of over-generalization I typically see from my undergraduate students.

  • big_giant_head

    Hm. When I’ve been rejected and gotten that letter extolling the brilliance of the person who was hired, it’s been helpful to me. “Oh,” I would think to myself, “I applied for that advisor position thinking I had qualifications enough, but then they hired someone with a PhD in Psych Counseling. I certainly don’t have that. They clearly hired someone more qualified than I am.” This would make me feel BETTER, because I realized I wasn’t rejected because they didn’t like me, but because they really did find someone better.

    Those letters don’t seem un-classy to me at all.

    And I’m going through a stack of CVs at this very minute. I promise you, the vast majority of them are well-qualified for the position. The person we finally hire will be brilliant and collegial and a great instructor, I hope, but I’m under no arrogant delusion about all the people we will reject. They’re all very good, too. They should be hired somewhere. They may be hired by us in the future.

    But not if they pitch a hissy fit and mail the charred bits of their rejection letters back to HR. This job is stressful. Our students are not Joe and Jane Ivy. Committee duties are tedious and sometimes crazy-making. We won’t be hiring anyone who we now KNOW lets the id run free when things are not as they would prefer them to be.

  • gsudduth

    I think snarkiness or petulance may be exponentially a part of the process if the interview was given by the organization that originally riffed you.

    Think about it.

  • tuxthepenguin

    Sometimes telling them off is appropriate. I once visited a campus only to learn that they could have cared less about having me there. I was just there to fulfill the admin’s job search requirements. It was insulting. I don’t care if they don’t like me (my regret is NOT telling them where to go).

    The opposite side of this is when a chair goes nuts about a candidate turning down an offer. I’ve seen that, and it’s really stupid, especially when the other offer is a lot better.

  • vaillancourt_az

    Ouch! For the record, the examples I provided (with the exception of the the woman who was snarky to me on the phone) were reported by others who called to ask for advice on how to respond. And, in each of these cases, the candidates had not been interviewed.

    I agree that it is essential to treat candidates in a respectful manner. The way we interact with others says a great deal about us as individuals and the general character of the organizations we represent.

  • http://fungibleconvictions.com/ Andrew Whitacre

    1) Since darccity indicated they are an administrator, it’s reasonable to assume they have hired people. If they’ve hired people, then they have experience — perhaps substantial experience — from which to generalize.

    2) Applications in the U.S. universally have a question along the lines of “Are you currently qualified to work in the United States?” That would cover the green card question. It’s not a question of professional qualifications per se but rather of legal ones.

    3) “…how could you possibly know that most other applicants lack the ‘fields or qualifications specified in the ad’?” See 1 above.

  • vaillancourt_az

    I have had this same experience. It’s been years and I still remember almost all of the details. While a group of 10 people do not represent an entire university, the experience was so distrubing that I still cringe a little when I hear the institution’s name. At one point I asked the search chair if we could knock off early because it was clear that I wasn’t being seriously considered. “Some members of the committee find you intriguing,” she replied, “so we should probably just keep going.” I still don’t know what she meant by that, but remember that campus visit as one of the longest days of my life.

  • lkaplan

    I have had this same exact situation happen to me on numurous on campus interviews. As a new professional in our field, it really makes me think poorly of the institution when you don’t hear a peep after you get called to campus. Which is just plain sad and unprofessional.

  • drlandsnark

    This reminds me of one of the secretaries at my first academic job. She said she could usually predict who the committee was going to choose by the way the candidates behaved toward her when she was helping them make their travel arrangements for the interview. Lesson: be nice to *everybody* when you are the candidate.

  • ynori

    Chime. Nice article and response.

  • robertkase51

    But YOU started off dissing the author to make your point. Bad form.

  • robertkase51

    Even in that siutation, it does YOU no good to repond negatively. One never knows what can come out of a poor situation. It is better to leave no impression than a bad one. If you feel disrespected simply shake the dust off and move on, but do not retaliate.

  • robertkase51

    I am surprised at the people who are attempting to defend poor behavior in some kind of fruitless attempt to teach those in the search process a lesson. The interview is a two way street, but if you leave behind a poor impression, regardless of how you were treated, it spreads like wildfire. There is simply never any reason for inappropriate responses. If you don’t like the answer, then either be silent or gracious but never retaliatory. You gain absolutely nothing from retaliating and the damage you do to yourself may go farther than you know. Any advice otherwise is poor advice and I have a boat load of examples to back it up.

  • asmahan

    This question does not cover the green card. It covers the status of the applicant. If the person’s status in the US is “legal” , then he/she qualifies to apply for a Work Permit based on a job offer. I am sure of this because I asked the institutions’ HRs about it.

  • sburright

    “Insects! I advise you to thank Providence that the prospect of annihilating your institution bores me.”

  • jaded58

    Yes, it is important to be polite, but I never appreciated the rejection phone call. My gut response was to just hang up, especially if they went on and on (I didn’t, but wished I had a few times).I prefer a thanks, but no thanks letter. I don’t want to know who you hired, I don’t care how many applicants, blah blah…Just thank me for applying and reject me. Advise for those wanting to rage…put the rejection letter/email through the shredder, sip on wine and laugh as you watch it turn into a thousand pieces of irrelevance.

  • tuxthepenguin

    I disagree. You have to consider the consequences of saying nothing while others are treating you like garbage. “Telling them off” is probably too strong. Nonetheless, at a certain point enough is enough. We’re humans (at least I am) and there’s only so much being treated like a dog that I will endure.

    I see nothing wrong with responding to a phone call informing you that they hired someone else by saying, “I expected that given the way I was treated on my visit. I wish you luck. Bye.” When we’re hiring someone, we treat them with respect, and there’s no reason everyone else can’t do the same.

    {And just in case it’s not clear, I’m not talking about venting frustration over not getting the job, I’m talking about cases in which they are extremely rude.}

  • doriso

    As a mid-career college administrator, I am putting a dedicated effort into how to better communicate when having to reject applicants. That effort is driven in part by having been hired and now working for some of the most thoughtful, gracious Deans and Provosts I have ever had the opportunity to meet, let alone work for. I aspire to be able to so the same as well as they do. It is also driven by the acute understanding that due to the nature of the positions that report to me, I need to build strong relationships not just with those I hire, but those I might want to hire in the future.

    That being said, I wish that more applicants realized that how they handle rejection says a lot about them as potential employees and whether or not a potential employer would reach out to them, should another position become available. A hostile response to being rejected for a position, can only justify why the candidate was rejected.

  • doriso

    I have this happen – more than once. It is usually a low level secretary or worse, a student worker responsible for sending out a mass rejection letter to all the candidates for all the positions recently closed. The best thing you can do is not take it personally and be glad you don’t work there!

  • oldcommprof

    The worst experience I’ve had in 16 years in academia raises similar memories. I was chair of a chair search committee, and after our moronic dean (who is now a community college president) made his selection — the internal candidate he urged to apply — he had that choice announced on the college web page the same day, before I could call the unsuccessful candidates. I have spent years repairing the damage to my integrity and professional reputation as a result.

  • professorjenn

    I could not agree more. After recently going through the hiring process at a college where I had been a term appointment, a person who had never taught at the college was hired because she holds a traditional degree, though not specifically what was needed. In fact, she was not even selected by the committee but had been chosen from higher up. I had been lied to about the status and had had my office packed for me and then my belongings moved from one office to another, ending up in my replacement’s. To make things better, an attempt was made to change my contract for the summer course I was teaching to an adjunct rate (a difference of $1000) without telling me. I found out when I did not get paid (which is the money I was living on) after the class had already been in session for a month. While I agree about not burning bridges, this sort of discourteous, disrespectful, unethical, and illegal activity sometimes does require speaking out and advocating for one’s self. I will never teach there again and while there may be changes, I am already teaching elsewhere and this has made me rethink my desire to teach at community colleges since it was such an adverse experience. Coincidently, the postion is vacant again but I would not even consider reaplying and would not recommend the college to anyone. I did send out an e-mail describing some of the experiene as a means of hopefully saving someone else from the grief, though I strongly suspect that arrogance ruled the day and blocked the message from being received. After relaying my experience to others, many very qualified candidates have turned away from the college and word is out in the area about the behavior on campus. In the meantime, this behavior has left the student in dire need of someone to teach critical clases while the college maintains its institution-centered philosophy.

    It is tragic and unnecesary behavior that does reflect poorly on the admin and had no reason to have ever occurred.

  • darccity

    Thanks, Andrew. The Chronicle has always had a pro-administrator bias. Just to expand on the “unqualified” issue: Every time I posted ads for an opening, a majority of the applicants did not have the fields of specialization specified in the ad. Not on their resume, not in courses they taught, not in research articles published. If the ad says must have a doctorate, you get tons of applicants without one. So lets say you get 300 applications that reduce to 50 by the national meetings time. A large portion of those 50 may already have positions and are merely testing the market (or need an offer to dicker for a raise — that’s what some deans require now!). If there are 20 openings nationally this year, they all received those 300 applications. Yet the reality could be that most of the qualified applicants will get offers, and a sizable fraction of offered will be spurned (especially for remote locales and more budget-strapped institutions)! Thus, the market may appear like a buyer’s market, whereas it is really a seller’s market!

  • supertatie

    Ms. Vaillancourt:
    After my share of position searches, and (as comes with the territory) my share of rejections, I was somewhat comforted in reading your article, since I can safely say that I have handled the rejection with grace and courtesy in each case. At least, each case in which I was given the opportunity.

    I have never been part of a search process where we did not respond to candidates, or where we received some weird or inappropriate reaction from a candidate who was rejected for the position. But I cannot count the number of positions for which I received a “thank you for your interest” form letter, and then not so much as a “we have chosen someone else” letter thereafter. In some cases, not even an acknowledgment of the receipt of the substantial amount of materials that the hiring committee asked to be submitted — which puts the candidate in a strange and uncomfortable position: do you call and ask them if they received it? What if they didn’t? What if they think you are being pushy? Which is more likely? Less risky? No candidate should have to make those kinds of unnecessary calculations.

    In one case, I had never heard a thing, but took it upon myself to notify the head of the search committee that I had accepted a position at another university, and wanted to remove my name from consideration. I did receive an acknowledgment of that, at least.

    Sadly, it has been my experience that hiring committees are as – or perhaps even more – likely to ignore what I view as practices of common courtesy, than applicants are. Your essay makes it clear that your institution actually pays attention to such matters. Bravo!

  • sburright

    Not long ago, I earnestly applied for a major position at a sizable and fairly prestigious institution. I didn’t even get an automated reply from HR. As the position was “Open Until Filled,” I checked back from time to time to see if the ad was still up. Some weeks later, it abruptly disappeared from the institution’s website. Googling the position ID turned up an internal document indicating that the position had closed a few weeks after my submission and was now filled. I expect that this is all the notification I will ever get about the status of my application.

    This experience is getting to be more or less typical.

    I want to make it clear that I do not apply for jobs for which I am not minimally qualified. I do not shotgun applications into the ether. I put a lot of effort into cover letters. I craft each application carefully to highlight points that are relevant to the advertised position, and I specify why I’m excited by the job prospect. I’m not a recent graduate by any stretch of the imagination, and I have a very specialized combination of skills and experience, which these ads are asking for, and which I am confident that dozens or hundreds of applicants do not have. In short, I am not just tossing generic junk applications onto the slushpile here, and I believe that my efforts merit some sort of response, even if it’s a perfunctory one, in a more or less timely manner.

    I want any HR personnel and search committee members reading this to know how discouraging and depressing it is when an applicant puts his heart and hope into this process and is answered by not so much as a “thank you for playing.” Many of us who are sending these packages in, which you are asking for, are not trying to waste your time or ours. We are in fact depending on this process to make a living. Speaking for myself, I’ve scarcely enjoyed waiting week after week for a response that never comes while the prospect of homelessness looms ever closer.

    I’m sorry that, judging by this article, applicants are often rude to you, and whenever I get some notice that my application has been considered, I am genuinely grateful, and I make an effort to say so. I’m sure it’s galling to be on the receiving end of a bitter tantrum just because you did your job. But here’s some consolation: at least your operation doesn’t go belly-up if you fail to receive thank-you letters from candidates. But when we applicants hear nothing back from you, that is exactly the prospect we face. You are the ones with most of the power in this arrangement.

    You can make a huge difference in our lives just by acknowledging our correspondence. And if you’re answered by the occasional hissy fit from a spurned candidate– and I promise you it will never be me– then maybe it’s because we’re going a little crazy out here waiting for answers.

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