I’ll be honest. The first time a dean asked me to consider establishing a dating service I was practically speechless. The second time, I uttered something unclever like “No, no, I’m in the Division of Human Resources, not the Division of Human Relationships.” By the third time a dating service was suggested, I was actually formulating a prototype. My university has yet to establish an academic version of Match.com, but I actually think it’s an interesting idea, and I’m impressed that the deans and department heads who have asked for such a service are concerned about the emotional lives of their faculty. Each time the dating-service idea surfaces, it’s prefaced by some version of, “I’m worried he will leave if he doesn’t find someone to hang out with on weekends.” These exchanges came to mind for me when I read my fellow On Hiring blogger Gene Fant’s recent post, I’m So Glad To Be Here (For a While Anyway).
In his post, Fant discussed potential warning signs that a recent hire is not fully committed to his institution. While the behaviors mentioned, e.g., failure to buy a house or change a cell phone’s area code, didn’t resonate with many readers, Fant was right to raise the issue. When people new to a community don’t settle in, they tend not to be happy or stay for very long.
While employment desperation can sometimes lead people to take jobs in places they don’t want to be, I think most people sign on to a new organization hoping to around stay for a while. So instead of blaming new hires for failing to fully commit, I think we should ask ourselves what we are doing to make new hires so willing to pick up and move. Or, framed more positively, what can academic institutions do to increase a new hire’s sense of community and organizational attachment?
Research in this area reveals that attention to both on-the job and off-the-job variables is crucial. Individuals are less likely to leave their organization when they can respond affirmatively to questions such as:
• Do you really love the place where you live?
• If you were to leave the community, would you miss your non-work friends?
• Are you active in one or more community organizations (e.g., churches, sports teams, schools, etc.)?
• Do you participate in cultural and recreational activities in your local area?
• Are you currently married?
• Is your spouse currently employed (in the same community)?
And yes, in my fellow blogger’s defense, “Do you own a home?” is also on the list!
How do we help new hires establish roots, make friends, find life partners and develop community networks? What strategies can we use to connect them to activities and organizations they will enjoy? What does it take to make people feel like they belong? Is your institution doing something innovative to build social capital?

