Over the past two decades, the use of they as a singular generic pronoun has been defended often and eloquently by linguists in various venues, including here on Lingua Franca. Geoff Pullum has written about the topic twice in the past year and a half: “Dogma vs. Evidence,” and “We Do Not Seek to Rule.” Pullum and others have written about the use of they with a singular antecedent extensively on Language Log. The Lousy Linguist, in yet another defense of the construction, provides a useful list of Language Log posts on the topic, through 2008.
I myself have taken part in the effort to defend singular generic they on numerous occasions. I happily climb on my soapbox about this construction because (a) they is singular in common usage, so it doesn’t make sense to call it “ungrammatical” in the descriptive sense (it is completely meaningful to both speakers and listeners in their everyday speech); (b) singular they is a very useful, efficient solution to the “generic pronoun problem”; and (c) writers have been using singular they effectively and often unnoticeably for centuries, so I would like to see the current prohibition on its use in formal writing lifted. But I’m not going to rehash those arguments here, given how well they have been articulated already in other places. Instead, I want to address the teachers who have read all of these various justifications yet still find themselves reluctant to let students use singular generic they.
I had the opportunity to talk with one of these teachers in person about 10 days ago, in the Q&A after a talk I gave in Ann Arbor in honor of a former colleague, during which I had climbed on the singular they soapbox. The woman identified herself as a high-school teacher and said that she heard all my justifications based on historical use and common spoken use, but that as a teacher, she did not feel comfortable letting students use singular they in their writing. She then added: “Please take your best shot at persuading me. I’m deeply skeptical, but I’m open to being persuaded.”
How could I turn down this invitation?
As I said at the time, I appreciated her openness and truly understood her concern. As English teachers, one of our responsibilities is to ensure that students master the conventions of standard edited English, so that they will not be judged in negative ways based on their formal writing. Whether it is fair or not, others (including other teachers and future employers) may judge a construction like singular they as “wrong”—as evidence that a writer is not well trained and “does not know better.”
I then offered my pedagogical solution: I tell students that they are welcome to use singular they in writing for my class, but they should footnote it the first time they use it and in the footnote explain their rationale for using singular they. And students do, both in my class and in other classes (for other classes, I tell them they’re allowed to end the footnote with an invitation for the instructor to contact me with any questions). This footnote accomplishes at least three things: It shows readers that the author is consciously making a choice to use singular they; it informs readers about legitimate reasons for using singular they, even if they disagree with its use in this context; and most importantly, it asks students to be careful, self-conscious writers, reflecting on and explaining their choices in their writing.
A fundamental goal of writing instruction, including instruction in grammar and style, is to encourage students to be highly aware of the decisions they are making as writers, from the level of the word, phrase, and sentence to the terrain of the paragraph and essay as a whole. The usage footnote demonstrates just this kind of awareness, and it offers instructors and students a way to acknowledge prescriptive rules about usage while adhering to their own sense of effective writing, especially when it does not correspond with still-accepted prescriptivism on the issue.Return to Top