Category Archives: Family

May 23, 2007, 3:43 pm

Light blogging alert — for a good reason

Tomorrow we are taking Peanut in for the big surgery to repair her cleft lip. This procedure is about as routine as having one’s wisdom teeth taken out, and about as uncomfortable. So we’re a little apprehensive not so much about the surgery itself but the recuperation process. But we’re also very excited, because although she is adorable and developing rapidly, the surgery is essentially going to remove the obstacle she has for a “normal life” as she grows up. It’s more than just cosmetic, although that side of the issue can’t be discounted. Her speech development, her ability to eat solid foods (already prodigious), her ability to get through stuffy noses and colds — anything that you need a normally-shaped nose and two whole lips for, she will be able to do without barriers after it’s over.

I’m trying to cook up and post some articles in advance so they’ll appear automatically over …

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April 24, 2007, 9:10 pm

My new blog: Prone to Wander

Longtime readers will remember that before Casting Out Nines, I had a blog called BrightMystery which dealt not only with the kinds of topics you read about here but also issues of faith, family, marriage, and fatherhood. I eventually split BrightMystery into two blogs, one for each general topic area. But the blog I created for faith and family and so on — we called it Daddyspeak — didn’t last very long.

Recently, though, two things happened. First, I began to miss writing about faith and family. I wrote posts like this one and this one, and after doing so I realized that I felt like I had a lot of things I wanted to write in this area that don’t properly fit here at CO9s. Secondly, I discovered blogs, which are free (ala Blogger) and run a modified version of WordPress, which is what I use for this blog. My wife and I migrated our family blog from a paid site to a…

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April 17, 2007, 9:57 pm

House guests

This is slightly off-topic, but cool nonetheless: We found a surprise at our house on Sunday afternoon.
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It’s a bird’s nest — tucked away between the front door and the wreath hanging on the door. What’s more, we’ll be getting four new residents at our place soon:
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Now the trick is to avoid letting birds in the house when we open the front door.

April 5, 2007, 8:25 am

Where do helicopter parents come from?

Maybe they come from situations like this, as reported in the Nashville Tennessean:

Teaching your kids to ride a bike, shuttling them to doctor appointments, reminding them to say “Yes, ma’am,” helping with algebra homework and training them to be sensible shoppers.

These aren’t the stuff memories are made of in some families.

Instead, there are services in the Nashville area that give you the choice of outsourcing traditional parental duties.[...]

In some large cities, you can pay professionals to come into your home and coach your baby into better sleeping patterns, toilet train your toddler and pick the head lice off your little one’s scalp.[...]

At Your Service will take children grocery shopping to teach them the value of money and how to compare brands, as well as take them pet-sitting to teach responsibility, said co-owner Rose Mary Rovansek, who spent 20 years as a…

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March 30, 2007, 6:45 am

I propose sainthood for whoever thought up…

…the wiki ToyInstructions, possibly the most practical use of a wiki I have seen lately. It is a huge, user-developed database of toy assembly and game play instructions. If you’ve ever been given the wrong set of instructions for assembling a toy, or lost the rules for a game you bought five years ago, you can appreciate the value of something like this. Dads everywhere can breathe easier because of this, especially as we head into the yard sale season and toys and games are available cheap but often without instructions.

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January 28, 2007, 3:37 pm

Here’s why blogging has been light.

I’m a proud papa again! Everybody — meet Peanut.


My wife and her mother are in China right now. They received Peanut this morning (which is Sunday evening China time). Everybody is doing fine, and Doodlebug and I are anxious for the crew to get home so we can… well, I was about to say “get back to normal”, but we’ve never quite been “normal”.

An aside to tie this in to the main theme of this blog: The technology we’ve been able to use has been amazing. I am deeply impressed with the ability of technology — particularly media and communications technology — to make this trip, which is extremely stressful on the whole family, into something almost ordinary. Case in point would be the above picture. At around 2:00 AM Indiana time, my wife and mother-in-law received Peanut from the orphanage. At 3:00, pictures were taken. At 7:00, I get a call from China to our Vonage home number…

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November 23, 2006, 1:22 pm

We made it

We’re in the new house after a pretty exhausting day of moving yesterday. No major surprises or crises. About the worst thing to have happened so far is that the Mrs.’ treadmill is inexplicably not turning on; we’re hoping it’s not just hosed after six months in a storage unit, because the “lifetime warranty” on Landice models doesn’t extend to environmental damage and so forth. Also, one of our cats ran off to hide in the basement and hasn’t come out yet. But otherwise all systems are go.

We ended up having the cable modem run up into the little office/sitting room area in the master bedroom rather than my study downstairs. Tomorrow I set up the wireless. I ended up going with this Netgear router; none of the Linksys routers worked with OS X or Linux. If I turn the Airport on using the Mac mini, I can pick up six different wireless networks — and there are only three houses with…

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November 21, 2006, 7:31 am

Fair warning

Blogging’s been sporadic the last few days as we get ready for the move into the new house, and will continue to be so for the rest of the week. Tomorrow is the actual move-in day. We’re boxing up the computer tonight and the cable guy is coming I think tomorrow afternoon to get the modem hooked up. If everything works with the modem and wireless, then there won’t be that great of an interruption. That’s “if”.

We spent basically the entire weekend at the new place (painting, putting up blinds, fixing the water line to the fridge, etc.) and most of our last few weeknights. The improvement in overall quality of life in going from an 800 ft^2 apartment to a house is hard to overstate. Even just baking a pizza in an oven that doesn’t leak heat out of the rangetop was an incredibly pleasant experience.

And speaking of appliances, the microwave we bought is quite interesting. It came with a …

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November 10, 2006, 7:14 am

House update

I haven’t done much house-blogging in a while, and before too long I won’t be able to because we’ll be living there. Here are a few facts/updates:

  • We close next Wednesday and move in over Thanksgiving.
  • Everything is basically done except a few paint touch-ups, adding a step to the deck, and some other last-minute fixes. There were quite a lot of rough edges on the house before our walk-through last week, and unsurprisingly our builder got it taken care of right away.
  • I think my favorite aspect of the house so far is the sink area. Seriously. This is because we put an extra-deep countertop that sticks out past the sink about 18 inches, forming a sort of eating area that we can put barstools under. There’s literally more countertop space in front of the sink than there is in the entire kitchen in our apartment.
  • We had a finished bathroom put in to the basement because …

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October 19, 2006, 12:20 pm

Fall Break overview

Fall Break is upon us, as is fall itself with rainy, cool weather today. It’s a break, but a full one:

  • This is the first day in over six weeks that I have had substantive time to work on the dual-degree engineering program. The deadline for curriculum proposals is coming up shortly and the thing needs to get done. I think I’ll make it. Some tweaking needs to be done: since we offer Calculus III only once every two years, students who want to do engineering but who start the program in even-numbered years can’t take it until they are juniors, which puts them a year behind in the engineering program. I’ve got a workaround right now for that, but it’s not pretty. So I am lobbying my department and dean to have Calculus III offered every year, like a normal math department would do.
  • This semester has been kicking my rear since about day 3 and hasn’t stopped. I have 14 hours’ of…

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